Viterbo, January 4th 2026
Dear Friend,
after all these years of studying the universe and the human being, of learning coaching modalities, of dedicating tens of thousands of hours to reading and listening to the greatest masters and scientists, I have come to the full awareness of the fact, that ANYTHING we want is potentially available to us, and is only a decision – or a series of decisions – away.
We need to decide what we want, and then decide that it’s important enough for us to actually go for it.
Deciding what we want needs to go way deeper than “I want to work less”, “I want to have more money”, “I want the ideal life partner”, etc.
Deciding what we want means getting clear on the life we want, on what makes us really happy. It means choosing our ideal days, places, experiences, people, health, emotions, abundance.
And it means excluding what we don’t want to have in our lives.
Most people tackle this the wrong way, they start by hustling and pushing and kicking – and burning out – in order to force/make/build those tangible things they want to see. That house, that business, that car, that bank account, that body.
But the way the universe works, when we’re hustling and exhausting ourselves from an inner place of lack, of need, and of desperate hope for something different, we’re still living in this energy of lack and need and desperation, and guess what this will bring us: more of the same.
And by the way, that house, that business, that car, that bank account, or that body, will never be enough to make you happy, even assuming that you actually manage to get them the hard way.
Raw action with no inner shift won’t get us there.
What will get us there is a different perception of ourselves, a different identity. The most important thing, and the very first thing we need to do, is to decide who we want to be.
You’re not very likely to suddenly be owning the car of your dreams, or having all those incredible trips and experiences you so badly want, while remaining your old struggling self.
In order to have these things, you need to be(come) that other, new – but absolutely real! – version of yourself who lives that kind of life.
And from that new identity, you will be able to decide what you will do, in order to manifest the things you want, that house, that business, that car, that bank account, that body.
Now you’re not only likely to have all these desired things in your like, now you’re making them pretty much inevitable. That’s a totally different game!
The rules of this game are:
there are three questions you’ll ask yourself, and in this precise order:
1️⃣ What do I want to have and experience in my life?
2️⃣ Who do I need to be(come), to have all of that?
3️⃣ What do I do, as this other version of myself? How do I think and feel? What’s my new lifestyle like?
Ok, so who am I, to teach and preach you this stuff with so much certainty?
Am I a millionaire?
No, not yet – far from it actually, at least on paper! But give me 3 years from now.
Am I changing millions of people’s lives?
No, not yet. But I can clearly see that I’m moving things. That’s my life’s commitment.
Do I have my ideal health and body?
Yes, I’m over 90% there, good work in progress, and another lifelong project.
Am I clear on my life purpose, and my vision, and my identity?
Yes, absolutely! Can you tell?
Do I have happy and healthy relationships with all the people in my life?
Yes, I do. These can look different for everyone of us, but you know when you’re happy.
What I’ve done my whole life, since I was a small kid, is to learn difficult things, then distil them down to simple ways, and show them to others. I was born to be a learner and a teacher, and I cannot remember a time in my life, when I wasn’t doing that.
I keep walking this path towards creating real freedom, outstanding health and wealth, and profound positive change for myself and for others. And more and more beautiful new people are resonating with my message and my approach ❤️🥰 Also part of my existing community is now embarking on this journey with me, which is such a wonderful, powerful thing!
Drop me a line if you want to hear more about that! ❤️ Who knows, you might want to join us too….
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